Life Notes http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/ Things I should remember. en-us Copyright 2009 Fri, 12 Jun 2009 15:06:27 -0500 http://www.sixapart.com/movabletype/ http://www.rssboard.org/rss-specification Cheap and Effective Deodorant
I have recommended this technique to several friends, and only those who tried to slather it on or something had problems.  Folks who found a good atomizer had success.

I usually buy some Weleda deodorant and refill it with 91% rubbing alcohol when it's used up.
]]> http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2009/06/cheap-and-effective-deodorant.html http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2009/06/cheap-and-effective-deodorant.html Fri, 12 Jun 2009 15:06:27 -0500 How Wrong You Are It is rarely wise to point out to someone how wrong they are.  And at times it isn't even accurate. http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2009/01/how-wrong-you-are.html http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2009/01/how-wrong-you-are.html wrong smarty-pants Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:55:21 -0500 Don't Press Down When shaving with a razor, don't press down.  If you do, it will cause small blemishes to appear all over the skin. http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2009/01/dont-press-down.html http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2009/01/dont-press-down.html Thu, 01 Jan 2009 14:57:20 -0500 Smiling One thing you can learn from a baby is that it doesn't take language skills to be a fun person to talk to.  Eye contact and a big smile goes a long way. http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2008/11/smiling.html http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2008/11/smiling.html Sat, 08 Nov 2008 10:07:31 -0500 Consequences
  • the likely nature of the subjective experience of the action, should the opportunity be taken,
  • the subjective experience of the immediate consequences,
  • and the subjective experience of the long term consequences.
The tendency is to see only one side of the experience, either ignoring the pleasant or the painful side.  But without seeing both the pleasant and painful sides of the consequences of an action, there's a great danger that an action will be taken without consideration of all the consequences.

There is also a tendency to focus on one's own subjective experience, but the experiences (immediate, short, and long-term) of other people are just as real.  Christians need compassion in order to follow Jesus Christ's commandment to "love your neighbor as yourself."
]]> http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2008/11/consequences.html http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2008/11/consequences.html Sat, 08 Nov 2008 09:13:29 -0500 Advice Traders, Guns, & Money, that with financial advisors selling complex products, "The problem was that if you could really understand the difference between good and bad advice then you really didn't need advice."

Evaluating a high level expert is the same kind of problem.  If a company needs to hire a computer programmer who is good at perl, they might not have anyone there who can evaluate the competence of the programmer.

The easiest way to evaluate the expert is to look at what they've done.  It doesn't hurt to look at the relationships they formed at their last few workplaces.

I (think I) found a copy of the NAB online, and in Matthew you find Jesus saying,

  7.15 Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.  You will know them from their fruits.  Are grapes gathered from thorns, or figs from thistles?

That's easier for spiritual leaders than perl programmers.  With the latter, the big problem becomes whether the expert is trying to pass off someone else's results as their own.
]]> http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2008/11/advice.html http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2008/11/advice.html Sun, 02 Nov 2008 08:32:25 -0500 Respect Elders
A nice strategy is to identify the most popular strategies for working with the problem set and to then search for the "primary expert".  For example, if the problem set is using computers to produce beautiful documents, you'll find strategies like Quark and TeX.  If you look at TeX closely, you find that Don Knuth is the primary expert.  If you burrow into Knuth for a while, you will be able to approach the problem set from an enlightened perspective.

I think this strategy of finding the primary experts would work for any problem set where a large number of people have tackled the problem.  It might be the most efficient way to avoid past mistakes.

But it is possible to generalize the idea and benefit from all experts, not just the primary ones, and to respect the expertise of everybody.  I'm still working on that.
]]> http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2008/08/respect-elders.html http://noserose.net/e/life_notes/2008/08/respect-elders.html Fri, 01 Aug 2008 12:07:42 -0500 Think Twice, Speak Once
In general, thinking twice before speaking (when I remember to do it!) has made me more considerate and my speech more appropriate.  The trick is to consider other perspectives and to consider how I might be wrong in that moment before committing to hasty speech.
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